Frequently Asked Questions

What was the motivation in choosing my career?

I love helping people open their doors to live as they have always dreamt of.  To explore, to adventures…

Right from childhood I was aware of people’s pain. Of course I couldn’t define or articulate it then, but I was aware.  And something stirred in me. Something that said I wanted to help people feel good. Ease up the pain.

As I developed, matured and gained life’s experiences, I realized just how many people suffered from insecurities that have lead to heightened anxieties.  These insecurities will hold people as prisoners. Too many people hold an unacknowledged belief in struggle and suffering. I teach and show my clientele that such a belief can be shifted and changed. That now they can think and believe in their own successes, their own dreams and goals come true.

I deeply think and believe that everyone has the right to Freedom on all levels.  Clarity = Success = Freedom!

What challenges do clients struggle with the most?

Shame and fear.  Fear of facing their fears. Shame that they feel shame, and shame that they have fears.   Shame and fear can have a paralyzing effect.  Professionally, it will freeze a businessperson from building and succeeding.  Privately, it will freeze a person from enjoying his/her life.  Leading to “existing, rather than Living”

Our culture tells us that we must be strong and in control at all times. We know at some level that isn’t possible, however we still hold shame when we are vulnerable.

If someone has been betrayed, all too often the person betrayed will take on shame. As if they are responsible for the other persons actions. That somehow he or she MUST have failed.  And that simply isn’t true.

Betrayal comes in many forms and faces – family, love partner/spouse, in the work place, friends and strangers, in the case of sexual crime, and so on.

People betrayed carry a great weight of shame.

What would you say to someone who is afraid to start looking for answers?

Please suspend the fear of what you might be.

Stop believing and living a “story”.  What has happened to you does NOT define you.  It is only part of a story.

Release the fear of Success in your Life.  Accept the reality that You can achieve unlimited Success!

What can one expect to feel after speaking with you?

Confidence.  A Release of Struggle.  A Sense of New Beginnings.  Of Hope.  Of Freedom.

My clients learn to believe in themselves, in their abilities and power. There is an excitement for life.  Many go ahead and pursue their dreams of building their businesses, change their careers, go back to school…live the life they have always dreamt of.

In Couples Counselling - what does ``Gaslighting`` mean?

To deceive someone systematically. He set me up and has been gaslighting me.

To cause (a person) to doubt his or her sanity through the use of psychological manipulation.

Are my clients restricted to Canada?

With Skype, Facetime, Zoom, WhatsApp, Google Duo and Telephone I can speak and help clients anywhere in the world.